okay this is taken directly from my brother's blog and its great:

In reading up on what the Doc and other gods of blog had to say, I read this:

And while we're on the subjects of Love and Tony, I can't resist pointing to the work of genius the old man put up yesterday. Speaking with the wisdom of age (he's 108 ), and risking the dark light at the end of his carpal tunnel, he offers advice to 20-year-old Ashley that reads like a modern Desiderata:
don't be fooled by guys who have great sex with you. the sex will always be great.

don't be fooled by guys who can write well. it just means that when they're mad at you you'll get the most hateful terrible emails. you deserve better.

don't be fooled by guys who are terribly handsome, or charming, or cool as a cucumber in a bowl of hot sauce. those guys, especially in LA are a dime a dozen.

what you need is a nerdy guy who'd do anything for you. who would leave you presents at your door and make web sites for you in your image: beautiful and grand, lyrical and edgy. you need a geek who would wait years for you, secretly, despite his own welfare. you need someone who wont make fun of the bad music kids these days love.

instead of trolling the skate parks and beaches, you should sit outside a cyber cafe or an engineering department, browse through the aisles of fry's electronics, become a member of the battery club at radio shack.

go geek, not greek.